I come from a family of entrepreneurs. My parents run a heavy equipment business, and my brothers both work for themselves in TV and film. In my own career, I’ve spent years in corporate leadership roles, managing global multi-million dollar cybersecurity programs and solving complex problems.
But starting a retail product-based business? That’s a whole different beast.
The first time I poured a candle, I thought I had a solid handle on things. After all, I understood operations, logistics, and strategic planning. What I didn’t expect was how overwhelming and lonely it can feel when you’re the one making every decision, wearing every hat, and trying to learn an entirely new industry from scratch.
Running a small product business can feel like wandering through a forest with no trail markers. If you've ever stood in your workspace surrounded by wax, wicks, to-do lists, and self-doubt, you're not alone. I’ve been there more times than I can count.
That’s why a few months ago, I joined Candle Business Pro. I didn’t do it because I thought it would magically fix everything. And I certainly didn’t do it because I had extra money lying around. Truthfully, the business isn’t exactly rolling in cash right now. I joined because I was tired of feeling like I was building this thing in isolation. Without a map. Without a community. And without much clarity on how to move forward.
I’d like to think I’m pretty capable. I’ve led teams, briefed executives, and handled pressure-heavy moments in both military and civilian settings. I’ve been in rooms where multi-million dollar decisions were made. But somehow, none of that quite prepared me for the kind of decision fatigue that comes with running a small product business on your own.
In the beginning, I told myself, “I’ve got this.” I read the blogs. Watched the tutorials (anyone else binge-watch Memory Box or Black Tie Barn videos?). Tried to reverse-engineer successful shops and figure it out as I went. But retail has a rhythm of its own. And when you're not just the maker but also the marketer, accountant, photographer, packer, designer, and customer service rep, that rhythm can become chaos.
There came a point where I realized I didn’t need more random advice or generic motivational posts. I’m not throwing shade at anyone I learned from along the way, but I needed structure. Guidance. A space to ask the weird questions without feeling judged. I needed community.
And that’s what I found in Candle Business Pro.